In order to improve, adapt, and change constantly, the human minds is constantly obsessed with knowing more about self and develop a better understanding of the individual.

But one thing that we as people don’t seem to understand is who we truly are, and who we are perceived as are 2 different people. The best we can hope for is the two aspects align the best they can, but it can never be up to us how we are perceived by our peers and people in our life.

This narcissistic tendency can be draining and irritating for their peers and fellows. To really understand yourself in the best way possible, means knowing yourself inside out, knowing what you are perceived as, and knowing how to not let that affect you. To help with such deep self-reflection, the following stone can be very helpful.

Carnelian is a stone that promotes positivity, self-improvement and an in general love for life. It is the perfect stone to have near you in times when you need the most confidence. Suppose, you have an interview or an audition, Carnelian is the stone you can rely on.

This stone is known as the stone of life and also the miracle stone. Shungite heals on multiple levels, including physical, mental, and spiritual. It has the tendency to develop the aspects of our brain dedicated to self-growth and spirituality.

Lapis Lazuli is a blue stone of wisdom, truth and communication. With this stone, you can take deep look at yourself, free of judgment and bias. In general, it improves decision making and judgment, making you wiser.

A stone of success and luck, Green Aventurine will help you take chances and risks, in turn helping you with self discovery and finding your true calling. By taking chances and discovery is the only way you can find yourself in the best possible way.